签到天数: 25 天 连续签到: 1 天 [LV.4]偶尔看看III
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<div><font face=SimSun size=4><span class=rjtitlebk><span lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><a href="http://blog.mzsky.cc/Rainbow" target=_blank><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">咚丫頭</span></a><br /><br /><font face=SimSun size=4> 古代女孩子到了及笄之年,头上都要梳着两个“髻”,左右分开,对称而立,像个“丫”字,所以称为“丫头”。唐代刘禹锡《寄赠小樊》诗云:“花面丫头十三四,春来绰约向人时。”而我们的<span class=rjtitlebk><span lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><a href="http://blog.mzsky.cc/Rainbow" target=_blank><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">咚丫頭</span></a></span></span>不梳髻,留的是披肩长发,芳龄应介于桃李与风信之间。</font></span></span></font></div>
<div><span class=rjtitlebk><span lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><font face=SimSun size=4> </font><a href="http://blog.mzsky.cc/Rainbow" target=_blank><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial"><font face=SimSun size=4>咚丫頭</font></span></a></span></span><font face=SimSun size=4>喜爱读书,几乎满博读后感。记得曾经有人说过,一个人用心看一本书的内容,等于是用别人绞尽脑汁苦熬出来的东西娱乐自己。而<span class=rjtitlebk><span lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><a href="http://blog.mzsky.cc/Rainbow" target=_blank><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">咚丫頭</span></a></span></span>读书,娱乐占的比例很小,主要是为了汲取心灵的鸡汤。</font></div>
<div><font face=SimSun size=4> 愚以为,读后感这种文章,价值莫过于引起读者阅读该书的兴趣,或者把读者拟阅读该书的计划扼杀于摇篮之中。前者扮演了致富带头人的角色,让人的心灵、精神变得富足,后者则是阻止别人重蹈浪费时间的覆辙。在评论中,我们经常可以看到“改天我也看看这本书”之类的字眼,说明<span class=rjtitlebk><span lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><a href="http://blog.mzsky.cc/Rainbow" target=_blank><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">咚丫頭</span></a></span></span>的读后感是有这种价值的。</font></div>
<div><span class=rjtitlebk><span lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"> <a href="http://blog.mzsky.cc/Rainbow" target=_blank><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial"><font face=SimSun size=4>咚丫頭</font></span></a></span></span><font face=SimSun size=4>的文章结构有一种简单之美,首先是说明与书遭遇的过程,或经人推荐,或慕名而读,或纯属偶然,接着是对该书的简介,往往三四句话就说出了荦荦大端,然后是结合自己和现实抒发感想,最后用一两句话概括之或升华之。所以看她的那些读后感,有直截了当的快感。</font></div>
<div><span class=rjtitlebk><span lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"> <a href="http://blog.mzsky.cc/Rainbow" target=_blank><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial"><font face=SimSun size=4>咚丫頭</font></span></a></span></span><font face=SimSun size=4>的思想还是比较传统的,在“干得好,不如嫁得好”甚嚣尘上的今天,她仍然坚持认为:婚姻从来不是女人的“保险单”,女人首先要干的好,才能收获生活真正的保障。如果干得好,又嫁得好,那就好上加好了。女人只有干得好,在经济上独立了,在家庭中,婚姻中才享有更多的自主权。“吃人嘴软,拿人手短,花男人的钱声虚气短”,将自己的一生附庸在男人手中生活的女人最最可怜,凡事以夫为天的女人,当天塌了,这女人也垮了。</font></div>
<div><font face=SimSun size=4> 其实,一个女孩如果真的冲着财富而嫁人,而对方也接受女孩“这么现实”,那就是周瑜打黄盖,一个愿打一个愿挨,女孩完全可以通过签订一项协议来不劳而获一笔钱。如果对方虽非有钱人,但“很会赚钱”,那么赚再多也是夫妻共有财产,拜拜以后是要二一添作五的,“黄脸婆”二分天下有其一,终究比净身出屋多一分安慰。</font></div>
<div><font face=SimSun size=4> 不过,即使传统的思想不一定吃香,但传统的女孩肯定吃香,从留言及评论中看得出,众多的网友引<span class=rjtitlebk><span lang=EN-US style="FONT-SIZE: 12pt; FONT-FAMILY: Arial; mso-fareast-font-family: 宋体; mso-font-kerning: 1.0pt; mso-ansi-language: EN-US; mso-fareast-language: ZH-CN; mso-bidi-language: AR-SA"><a href="http://blog.mzsky.cc/Rainbow" target=_blank><span style="FONT-FAMILY: 宋体; mso-ascii-font-family: Arial; mso-hansi-font-family: Arial">咚丫頭</span></a></span></span>为良师益友,甚至是“好逑”!</font></div> |
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